Friday, November 19, 2010

Hi, I’m hed.

So any of you coming over from my Hed Down Under blog know what I’m about for the most part. Same with my “Musings of a Bipolar Girl” peoples. Earlier this week I posted about merging the two blogs into one, and well, this is the finished product. For now, until the transition from Australia back to California is completed (3 weeks), you will be getting some of my “best of” blog entries to chew on. This is the first post from my “Musings” blog, and…not much has changed. I really hope you’ll follow this blog ------------>                       and enjoy reading it as much as the last two.

(Dated May 9, 2010)

I love to write. I usually have so much stuff stuffed inside my brain that it seems like I have ADD. Look, a blue car! What were we talking about? Oh yeah, me. Good subject. I'm like a Chuck Palahniuk book-on the surface, normal, but when you dig deeper you realize it's more fucked then you could have ever imagined. I try my best to hide the fucked-up part, and I'll bet that a lot of the people that know me, even the really close ones, would think that I'm overreacting. I'm not. At all. I'm like a good, law-abiding senator who gets caught in a gay bar with his leather daddy. You should also know that I'm good at analogies.


 [uh-nal-uh-jee] –noun, a similarity between like features of two things, on which a comparison may be based

My whole life, my being, is a comparison between me and something I'm not. I'm constantly running a checklist off in my head when I think about others vs. myself. "Oh, she's married, like me! And she owns a house." "See? I'm better than her because she's single and I have found someone. But she has a master's degree." I've been doing this as long as I have been living, and nine times out of ten I'm the one on the short end of the compare stick. When I visualize my feelings about this, I always picture myself as the Silver Medal; and everyone else is either a Gold Medal or a Bronze Medal. I don't know if I've ever thought of someone as my equal; you're either better than me or beneath me. It takes a LOT to be the Bronze Medalist, by the way: you need to be snorting heroin on a street corner for me to look my nose down at you. I am an unbelievably forgiving person, even when I know I am right. I will bend my will to make sure people like me. It makes me a good manager for the most part; employees love me because they can walk all over me, customers get whatever they want. I go home with an anger bubble so deeply logged in my stomach that I usually eat or sleep away. Oh, the manager thing? Since about 2001, I've been in some form of retail management: a video store here, clothing store there. I am currently not working. I recently broke down, and don't have enough money for a full overhaul of my system (Like that one too?). Two months ago, I started seeing a psychologist twice a month to figure out why I do the things I do, and to really get to the core of who I am. The funny thing is, my doctor's superiors, after reading her files on me, urged her to make me come in twice a week.

Writing to me is cathartic. It's either that or sleeping, and I can't sleep at the moment; eating (which I have finally tried to take control of-more on that one later); or zoning out with mindless video games, which I will actually do after I post this. So that's about it for now, I felt like posting about my core so I can work outward when I write. Hi, I'm hed.

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  1. Sweetie you know I will follow you wherever you go. I just hope all is ok with you. I know coming off meds can be very scary physically and you might not even see it. I like the name of this blog too. Sounds positive!!! Glad you wrote me. Hugs to you my dear!!!

  2. first comment! Thanks Barb...always appreciated <3

  3. Hed Above Water? You’re a genius.

    Allow me to dazzle you with what little achievements geeks generally use to impress young ladies. I have over two hundred games on my shelves. *Flexes*

  4. Drake-you are so awesome. I wanna know how many platforms they are all on! NERD! :)

  5. Thanks for letting me know about this Hed. :) Looking forward to continuing reading your work.

    So you are coming back to California?! Let me know what's going on with that please!

  6. Just the PC. And a few for the Xbox 360. All my Megadrive, Saturn, Nintendo 64, Gamecube, Playstation, Playstation 2, Dreamcast, and Gameboy games were passed along to charity long ago. I don’t mind. The PC’s the one that took my virginity.

  7. Ok I'm confused...I know it doesn't take much...ha ha ha! I understand if we're gonna follow u we must come here, which is great...cause I was so worried that you would stop writing. But are you now moving back to America?


  8. Lvely Lady, I'm here too. So glad you are sorting stuff out. Great big hugs

  9. Morgan and CBG-go read my last blog post on Hed Down explains everything...hopefully!

  10. Hi HED, I am one of Barb's friends. Odie Langley and I enjoyed reading your post and want to continue. I also have a blog that you are welcome to visit anytime.
    Hope you have an awesome weekend

  11. I'm here.....I can't wait to keep reading about your journey!! Hugs

  12. I second Drake's "Genius" comment. I'm locked in and ready for the goods.

  13. Odie-Welcome! As soon as I get back home I'm updating my blog lists, so be waiting for me! :)

    Colenic-hi again <3

    ib-aww shucks :)


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